Oral Sex---sin or a married couple's business?

[OverseerCWFJ]

TrueWord said:

Why aren't you giving your opinion? Why are you only refereeing this? I'm curious what you think.

Hello, TrueWord. Because I am the moderator of the board and it's part of my ministry, I would rather post good topics and let you all discuss them as I add questions for thought or to stimulate further discussion. My fear is that if I get too deeply involved in the discussions, there will be a perception that my word is the last word and that opinions are not welcomed.

Of course if I see someone bringing forth a doctrine that is contrary to the Word of God, I will have to intervene. However, on topics such as this one, I'd rather you all go for it and share your scriptures, etc. while I hang out on the side lines.

Thanks for your question.

[FireQuencher]

OverseerCWFJ said:

My fear is that if I get too deeply involved in the discussions, there will be a perception that my word is the last word and that opinions are not welcomed.

I can accept this. You are a minister so that's probably why people want to hear your views but I respect what you are saying.

My views on oral sex are not steady. I'm really not sure. Once I get married my view will be 100% clear but as a single man who is trying to live right (and not engage in fornication), it is hard to speak on this.

I'm going to try to recruit some of my married friends to post here. Maybe they can give some insight.

[Science]

I'm a married man. Regardless of what people think, married adults are gonna do what they want. What I do is between me, my wife and God.

[Watchman On The Wall]

Science said:

I'm a married man. Regardless of what people think, married adults are gonna do what they want. What I do is between me, my wife and God.

And let the church say....."Amen"!

[Patience]

Good Evening everyone. Without going into my personal business, I will say that there were many things I always said I would never do and I now do some of those things (never say never if possible). And marriage brings with it a level of trust when you marry the right person. For those of you who are single, I would be interested in seeing what you think after you marry.

[hmscmom2]

Im not sure if this topic is still up for discussion, but dosent it say the marrage bed is undefiled?

[Patience]

Hello Everyone,

It's been some time since I visited. Yes, it says that the marriage bed is undefiled but that should be interpreted with caution. That scripture is not a "free pass" to do just anything.

[hmscmom2]

I ve never seen it in the Bible where it names oral as a sin. although in Bible college we were discourged from doing it because "this in one of the only way a homosexual can 'have sex' and we should stay away from any thing they would do." How ever they also kiss hold hand etc. So we never felt that held much water. Any one ever here that take before?

[Patience]

I've never personally ever heard that but I simply wanted to tell people not to see that one scripture as a free pass to do anything in the marriage bed. Yes, it is undefiled when making love occurs between a husband and a wife but that is all that scripture means. I say this without passing judgment one way or another on the topic of oral sex.

[OverseerCWFJ]

This is a topic that will be debated for as long as the world exists.